Navigating Single Life & Dating In The Modern World

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What To Expect From BDSM Dating

What To Expect From BDSM Dating

The world would be a pretty boring place if we were all the same. BDSM dating might not be everyone’s cup of tea, but there are plenty of reasons why you might want to give it a go. Of course, if you’re thinking about dipping […]

How To Avoid Online Dating Scams

How To Avoid Online Dating Scams

If you’re a little bit older, then online dating can seem like a bit of a scary prospect. Though people in their 20s grew up in a technologically advanced world, your own first experiences of meeting people probably involved the workplace, or a night out […]

There’s No Shame In No Strings Dating

There’s No Shame In No Strings Dating

Sometimes, as a singleton, you’ll reach a stage in your life where you’re ready to settle down. You’re serious about finding a long-term partner to share your life with, and you decide that you’re done with dates that end up going nowhere, or short relationships that may well be a load of fun, but probably don’t have any real prospects for the future.

But sometimes, you know that you want the opposite. You don’t want commitment. You still want to enjoy the company of another person and have a really good time, but you’re unapologetic about the fact that this will never be a lasting kind of thing.

And you know what? There should be absolutely no shame in making that decision. If you suspect that sex dating could be just your cup of tea right now, then you should definitely consider pursuing it. This is why…

Everyone knows what they’re signing up for

We’re all adults here. We can make decisions about what we really want, and we can take action to bring our desires into reality. As long as you communicate openly with your dates about what you want, and you aren’t leading anyone up the garden path, then there’s no need for anyone to get hurt or be given the wrong impression. Sites that offer nostringsdating uk opportunities mean that you can be connected with people who are actively searching for the exact same thing.

You don’t have to tell the world about it

Okay, so you’re probably not going to mention your no strings dates to your grandma over Sunday dinner. It might not go down particularly well. But the point here is that your private life is exactly that – completely private. If this is something that you want to explore without telling other people, then that’s totally fine. As long as you’re taking safety precautions when it comes to where and how you meet your dates, then you really don’t need to divulge all the details to your nearest and dearest!

Love and marriage isn’t for everyone

Maybe you’re completely happy with the single life, and you have no desire to change your circumstances any time in the foreseeable future. If your life is one that makes you happy and fulfilled, then that’s great. Society often tries to make us think that our goals should include a white wedding, a few kids, and a shared home with someone you love. These days though, more and more of us are realising that there’s other options, and that they’re just as legitimate. Knowing your own mind and what you really want can be a very liberating and powerful thing.

The internet has given us a wealth of opportunities, and one of those is the freedom to be able to date on our terms. So if no strings dating is something that you want to explore a little further, then don’t let anything hold you back from making a decision that’s right for you.

Would you ever experiment with this way to meet new people?

 

Why You Should Try Online Dating This Weekend

Why You Should Try Online Dating This Weekend

Have you been single for a little longer than you’d have liked? Do you know that it’s probably time to get back in the dating game, but feel a little nervous to go ahead and take the plunge? And have you often thought about trying […]

How To Navigate Older Dating With Joy & Ease

How To Navigate Older Dating With Joy & Ease

There’s no denying that as you start to get a little older, the dating game changes and evolves. The things that you cared about when you were twenties no longer seem to be as important to you, and as your life has taken its own […]

The First Date Grooming Guide

The First Date Grooming Guide

Looking your best is a part of the dating process that can make sure you feel confident, comfortable, and ready to go out there and get to know people a little bit better. If you’ve been out of the dating game for a while though, it can be more than just a little bit daunting.

If you’re concerned about how to wow without going overboard or spending too much of your valuable time worrying about what you look like, then you’re in the right place. Get stuck into my first date grooming guide – I’ll show you exactly what to focus on, especially if you’re really busy and just don’t know where to start!

Get your hair in tip-top condition

A good hair day makes us all feel that extra bit special. Often though, it’s not about the particular style you choose, or how long you’re sat in front of the mirror on any given morning. It’s the little things you do each day to take care of your hair, and ensure that it’s in the best possible condition.

Book in regular trims with a hairdresser to keep it healthy, and create a haircare routine that suits your hair type and style. If you have any underlying concerns, it might be worth considering booking an appointment with a professional. Hair loss due to stress and mental health issues is more common than you might think,  and should not be ignored.

Focus on creating a capsule wardrobe that encompasses your personal style

How many times have you rushed out and bought an entire new outfit just because you’re going on a date? You absolutely deserve to treat yourself, but this approach can cost you a fortune, and it can also mean that you end up with a real mismatch of clothes that you’ll struggle to bring together into great outfits.

These days, we’re becoming more and more conscious of the impact of our buying decisions on the world around us, and a small, perfectly formed wardrobe will allow you to ditch fast fashion for good, and really lean into your own signature style. For more inspiration, check out this guide to creating the ultimate capsule wardrobe.

Most importantly, make sure that you’ll feel comfortable

First dates can be daunting, whichever way you look at it. The last thing that you want to do is choose a look or an outfit that makes you feel self conscious. If you rarely wear heels, for example, now isn’t the time to start experimenting with them. Making sure you feel comfortable and like your true self will help to ensure that you’re relaxed and able to enjoy your evening.

At the end of the day, it’s not your outfit that your ideal partner will remember you for. It’s the stories you share, and the conversations that you have together. If you need to soothe your nerves a little, it’s worth reading this advice on surviving your first date.

How do you approach grooming for a first date? Leave a comment and share your best tips!

The Reality Of Managing Your Finances As A Single Person

The Reality Of Managing Your Finances As A Single Person

There are a lot of challenges that life throws in your direction when you happen to be single… There are the parties to navigate on your own, the questions to field from well-meaning relatives, and there’s also the important (but definitely less discussed) issue of […]

5 Things You Need To Stop Saying To Single People

5 Things You Need To Stop Saying To Single People

Once of the most frustrating things about being single – even if you’re happily uncoupled and have no immediate desire to get into the dating game and meet someone special – is the fact that every single person you meet seems to have an opinion, […]

How To Get Out Of Your Dating Rut

How To Get Out Of Your Dating Rut

Are you stuck in a bit of a dating rut? I’ve been there. You’re frequenting the same old dating apps, meeting the same kind of people over and over again, and you’re turning up to the same bars and restaurants, week after week, in the hope of finding your other half.

At first, it’s new and exciting and full of possibility. After a while, it starts to feel stale and boring. You’re going through the motions, and frustratingly, it’s not leading to anything meaningful or even promising.

What you really need to do right now is get yourself firmly out of that dating rut, by shaking things up a little bit. Here’s how to do it…

Try a new method of meeting people

We’re very much creatures of habit. We tend to have the same breakfast every weekday, take the same route to work, and spend our weekends binge watching the same genre of shows on Netflix. I love having a good routine, and familiarity isn’t a bad thing. Until it is, because it isn’t working for you. If you’ve been on Tinder for six months now and you’re seeing the same old faces time and time again, it’s probably wise to think about widening your net.

Join a new dating app. Make it your mission to strike up a conversation with that man who catches your eye on the commute. Go old school, and check out speed dating events in your local area. I love this piece from Metro on the joys and the horrors of speed dating. They sat that a change is as good as a rest, and it could be just what you need to get out of your dating rut.

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Suggest a totally different kind of date

You meet at a local bar that ticks all your boxes. You have a few drinks together. If things are going well, you might grab a bite to eat in the restaurant round the corner. How many times have you essentially been on exactly the same date, with a different man?

Getting a little out of your comfort zone could be an ideal way to shake things up a little, and kickstart a different kind of conversation. At this time of year, ice skating or a Christmas market could be a great idea. Or if you’re feeling bold, why not suggest a karaoke bar? You don’t have to be a good singer. In fact, being a good singer is almost against the rules.

Take a break for a while

Dating can feel a bit relentless at times. You dress up three times a week, you plan some witty conversation, and every night seems to blend into all the others that came before it. Listen, I’m a bit advocate of getting out there and making things happen. But if you know you’re in a dating rut, it might be time to just take a break completely.

Spend some time with your friends, or getting stuck into a DIY project, or taking up a new hobby. A couple of months out of the dating game could be just what you need to reconnect with yourself and think about what you really want. The apps will still be waiting of you, and as much as I hate to share an annoying cliche, you might find that love comes looking for you when you least expect it.

Have you been dating for a while? How do you keep things interesting and exciting when you just aren’t meeting the right people?

Where To Turn To For Meaningful Relationship Advice

Where To Turn To For Meaningful Relationship Advice

Sometimes, the last thing that we want to do is sit and listen to unsolicited dating and relationship advice from people who think they know what’s best for us, but don’t really understand what we’re dealing with. Sometimes though, we really could benefit from a […]